I have been friends with a girl for years. Lately my friend has been comparing me with other people and saying they’re her closest friend. I’m not jealous of other people it’s just that she keeps mentioning this all the time. She also makes me feel overweight and is extremely competitive at work. We have [...]

do you have non-trite advice for moving on? I was with my boyfriend for 4 years when he starting hooking up with someone else. He came back to me about 18 mos later. now, a year later, he dumped me again for her. Normally I love women, but this bitch is pissing me off. I [...]

Adri, So I started seeing this girl. Trying to kiss her after a couple of dates was a little fast for her. I just about got the Heisman stff-arm from her. Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve gotten her to open up a little: holding my hand, I even got her to lean on [...]

Dear Ask Adri- I do not orgasm from vaginal penetration. Only through clitoral stimulation. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do to make this happen? My boyfriend gets really upset if I don’t cum during sex, and I refuse to fake it to make him happy. Your advice? -Not Faking Well, Not [...]

Adri, I’m a pretty girl. I know this. I’ve been told before and I’m not seeking validation. I’m also a nice girl. People like me and think I’m funny. But, when I go out, I can’t seem to meet any men that are interested in me. They always seem to find my other friends attractive. [...]

Adri, Awesome to have Ask Adri back. I really missed it. I just started seeing someone last week. We spend a lot of time together even though we both work at the station, so we always end up spending late nights together after shows. She’s really sweet, easy to talk to, not shy, but pretty [...]

How long is too long since you´ve had a gf??? Say 2 yearsand 2 months…. — Anonymous Mexican You’re not so anonymous if I know who you are, Mr. Mexican. I would say that two years and two months is either not long enough or way too long if it’s still on your mind [...]

Right, so I used to be in a really good liberal arts school, developed a hard drug habit and was asked to leave. I returned home insecure and anxious about life and joined another college and things are slowly but surely working out now. I’m drug-free for the first time in years and happier than [...]

07/24/2006 Adri, I dated a girl about six years ago. I really loved her. She was my first love, my first kiss, and the first girl I was really with (if you know what I mean). She broke up with me after a couple of months (6), because things got complicated (I know it was [...]

06/30/2006 “Reb Lobster”… Donut Snickerdoodle. 06/29/2006 Are long distance relationships worth it?. –FINE Maybe. It really depends on you. If you’re totally in love and there’s a committment toward a common future, then yes. If it’s because you are scared of meeting other people and are comfortable in what you are doing now, and you’re [...]

06/27/2006 Why is the sky blue? –I’ve been wondering… There’s a great scientific answer available if you do the google thing. Otherwise, I’ll venture that the sky is blue because the cockroaches that secretly rule the earth told it to be blue. And it was good. 06/26/2006 I gave my number to a girl I [...]

06/08/2006 “Quetzalcoatl”… The Book of Mormon “The Book of Mormon”…Red Lobster Why Doesn’t Ask Adri enable commenting on questions and answers? –Bursting with Comments Well, the main reason Ask Adri doesn’t do that is because Adri doesn’t know how to do that. She’s in the process of moving to Word Press or livejournal so this [...]

name three slam poets you would have sex with, right now, no questions asked. and no, you can’t choose poets you’ve already fucked. and no chicks either, cause that’s way too easy. –Zyx I’ve already had sex with every slam poet. Ever. Actually, I would shag Corinna Bain, Rachel McKibbens, and Karen Ladson. I dare [...]

I’m in my mid-20′s and I haven’t had sex yet. I used to get the virgin question and had absolutely no problem saying no, but lately the zero problem has grown to a slight problem. Now I’ve done just about everything else i.e. dry-humping and oral sex, but most people don’t consider that sex in [...]

So I’ve been blown off by this guy a couple of times in the past (after we hooked up).  We are going to be fairly close to one another (within 50 miles) over the summer for internships.  Should I ignore him or just make a nice summer fling of it? –Anonymous Definitely make him a [...]