Where are the snowdens of yesteryear? –Yossarian They all died in pointless wars designed to purge a generation of innocence and create instead an army of cynical hardcore emotives on myspace . I really like a friend of mine and would enjoy to engage in a relationship beyond what we have now, but I’m moving [...]

What are some underrated/unappreciated erogenous zones on the female body? –wild bill My whole body is an erogenous zone if done correctly. That’s the thing. It’s not always where you touch (although sometimes that’s critical), it’s how you touch. I can’t really tell you what any other girls’ zones are, but I know that I [...]

I’ve known this girl I like for a while, and I want to tell her I’m crazy about her. We’re really close, and one thing I know about her (because she’s admitted to it) is that she loves what she can’t have. As soon as she’s got it, she doesn’t want it anymore. If …

I’ve been dating a woman for several months, but the physical side of our relationship is rather confusing. She’ll go down on me, but won’t let me go down on her or even see her peachfish, and she’ll only let me fuck her up the ass (no vag AT ALL) with the lights off. …

I recently started taking anti-depressants. I’m glad that I’m on them, and am egarly anticipating the positive effects (takes a few weeks). I’m comfortable with the fact that I need them right now, and have had some helpful support from careing friends. To help tide me over untill they start to kick in and …

A co-worker whose friendship I enjoy greatly has a Journal on the same online Journaling service (LiveJournal) that I do. Most of my posts are locked, especially the ones about work or sex. He wants to add me and I joked that this would never happen, which I think is totally understandable. That said, …

If I wanted to do something really really cute to you, while you were only wearing a plane hanes t-shirt, what color would i have to paint my toenails? –Liam Something really really cute to me? Oooooooh. ::sigh:: Any color you want. Although I am partial to boys in black nailpolish that wear eyeliner. (Isn’t [...]

my boyfriend has some pretty severe anger issues. he has never hit another person, but a few years back (when he was angrier than he is now) he broke a girlfriend’s laptop–like, smashed it to bits–during an argument. he still gets really angry easily and because i was abused as a child i get …

I’ve noticed a pattern with my relationships. They seem to last 2 1/2 years before I decide that it isn’t right for me and move on. This leaves the women heartbroken and I feel unmoved and unaffected by the whole thing. Am I incapable of actually loving someone or am I just making excuses …

Lately, I’ve been going brazilian down there with a landing strip, and I’m a big fan. I don’t really have a problem with vag-hair, but at the moment I like it this way. My boyfriend isn’t really invested, but enjoys both the hairy and hairless look. I’d really like to go all-out and rid …

A little background info first. I have been in love with my best friend for 3 years. I know it could never work because of the long distance, but the feelings are still there. A good friend of mine who is an old acquaintance of my best friend, just got back in touch with him [...]

I’ve posted this elsewhere on my journal, but it’s still a legitimate question! I’m sorry for the length, but the background is necessary (I think). So I have this friend (no, really). Before she turned 21 she never drank and was the typical “good girl” in every way. Since she turned 21 (last summer), she’s [...]

My parents are coming to visit, and my girlfriend wants to meet them. I like my girlfriend, but I don’t want to send “long-term” signals. She will see through me if I “procrastinate” or “forget to invite her to dinner.” Dr. Adri? I need a plausible excuse. –Cautious in Cali Cali, your problem is quite [...]

Why does this website look funny in firefox? it makes me sad. kisses! –Cat Well, Cat, the reason this website looks funny in firefox is because I was playing with absolute positioning in CSS and I’m clearly not that good yet. This is what happens when you forgo blogging software and do everything with an [...]