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vanity of the big-headed cubus

07/24/2006
Adri, I dated a girl about six years ago. I really loved her. She was my first love, my first kiss, and the first girl I was really with (if you know what I mean). She broke up with me after a couple of months (6), because things got complicated (I know it was my [...]

06/30/2006
“Reb Lobster”… Donut

Snickerdoodle.

06/29/2006
Are long distance relationships worth it?.
–FINE

Maybe. It really depends on you. If you’re totally in love and there’s a committment toward a common future, then yes. If it’s because you are scared of meeting other people and are comfortable in what you are doing now, and you’re latching onto whatever you can because [...]

So I’ve been blown off by this guy a couple of times in the past (after we hooked up).  We are going to be fairly close to one another (within 50 miles) over the summer for internships.  Should I ignore him or just make a nice summer fling of it?
–Anonymous

Definitely make him a summer [...]

Where are the snowdens of yesteryear?
–Yossarian

They all died in pointless wars designed to purge a generation of innocence and create instead an army of cynical hardcore emotives on myspace .

I really like a friend of mine and would enjoy to engage in a relationship beyond what we have now, but I’m moving [...]

I recently started taking anti-depressants. I’m glad that I’m on them, and am egarly anticipating the positive effects (takes a few weeks). I’m comfortable with the fact that I need them right now, and have had some helpful support from careing friends. To help tide me over untill they start to kick in and [...]